"It feels like spills about come to an end I just hope these fears of mine do not come to be."
The Spill Movie Community
If it's crap ... We'll tell you
Follow Spill!
Latest Activity
The Loading Bar Appreciation and Remembrence Society
For The Loading Bar: Gone but not forgotten.A place for Ladyboy Tequila Slaves and Cocaine…See More
nkWhiteStar posted a status"Wakes up today and reads all the posts from during the night.... there is hope for Spill, Brian, Jeff, and Jason after all.... :)"
Lionel 192 posted a status"Georges Moustaki dies and now this Spill situation going on. This was a bad day."
PresidentEvil posted a status"Give Jeff, Jason and Brian Money! delete the spaces, hit enter: https:/ /fundrazr.com/campaigns/fWFWb?psid=ced204e6e7b0 4ea58ca48b3b217cc613"
Remote Viewing
Just a place for fans of the new Remote Viewing podcast with Cyrus, Brian, and Luke. See More
Photos
Music
AM I SO F__ING HORRIABLE? Why do you they all hate me?
So my boyfriends family hates me as much as my boyfriend tries to deny it these people don’t try to hide it. Today was the final straw when it comes to hurtful things they can do and for the last two years they have made the holidays horrible for me...Since my family is in Texas and I am in school and work i don’t really have a chance to see them during thanksgiving and Christmas...So here is my questions to them i wish i could get an answer to. And no this may having nothing to do with movies or comics but this is my place to vent about my frustrations..
Why do you hate me? Really why? I make my own money I pay my own bills I by my own things... I think its cause we live together . Or is it cause we arnt married?.. Or is it becasue im black and he is stepping out the family comfort zone. But why was it okay when you all thought i was asian?..(hey i dont know how they thought this but the did).Or why is okay his dads married to mexican lady?( by the way she is the only one who is nice to me)..How come on thanksgiving i wasnt included in the family pictures..I know you did it on purpose by handing me everyones cameras and telling me to take the pictures. And to the person who brought all the women flowers in the family you know i live here you knew id be here so why didnt i get any flowers?..I dont really want your dumb flowers but a thought would be nice. And how come for chirstmas i was left out of the gift exchange how come my name wasnt in the hat? How come when I walk into the room you greet my boyfriend and then there is an akward oh yea hi Brit? or i am ignored all together.
I hate the holidays in california..so much so i voluntered to work on christmas eve. I would rather be with the lonley drunks than this family...I cant wait to move back to austin!
Why do you hate me? Really why? I make my own money I pay my own bills I by my own things... I think its cause we live together . Or is it cause we arnt married?.. Or is it becasue im black and he is stepping out the family comfort zone. But why was it okay when you all thought i was asian?..(hey i dont know how they thought this but the did).Or why is okay his dads married to mexican lady?( by the way she is the only one who is nice to me)..How come on thanksgiving i wasnt included in the family pictures..I know you did it on purpose by handing me everyones cameras and telling me to take the pictures. And to the person who brought all the women flowers in the family you know i live here you knew id be here so why didnt i get any flowers?..I dont really want your dumb flowers but a thought would be nice. And how come for chirstmas i was left out of the gift exchange how come my name wasnt in the hat? How come when I walk into the room you greet my boyfriend and then there is an akward oh yea hi Brit? or i am ignored all together.
I hate the holidays in california..so much so i voluntered to work on christmas eve. I would rather be with the lonley drunks than this family...I cant wait to move back to austin!
Comment
-
Comment by The Physicist on December 13, 2008 at 2:51pm
-
Well, all I can say is, if my family was behaving like that towards my girl friend (and there actually was no provocation on her behalf), they wouldn't be seeing much of me anymore. Maybe you're bf ought to make a stand.
It should be noted that this of course wouldn't happen to my hypothetical girl friend since my family isn't racist.
-
Comment by Brad Holt on December 8, 2008 at 10:53pm -
huh, that sounds like you need to dump him and get with another man with friendly parents, my parents will like you. lol. nah i'm just kidding, that really sucks, People have their reasons why they don't like certain people. hopefully they'll except you.
-
Comment by MDS on December 8, 2008 at 10:53pm -
WOW!
Well, Sugra... from what you are saying, it does sound like it might be a racial issue. I find it funny that while Asian everyone was at least 'nicer' to you. I also find it odd that the one person that is at least tolerable is the "Mexican Lady", who I think we can all agree faces her own issues from people.
But really, to cut you out of pictures, to cut you out of gift exchanges? That's almost a clear cut sign that the family doesn't WANT to include you. While I'm not sure about the Boyfriend, I think it's clear that the family is going to be a point of contention between you two regardless of his personal points of view. While he may be the best guy in the world ( I am only guessing on this, I don't know him) his family appears to be the type that will constantly go behind your back and create a feeling of 'unwelcome' when it comes to you. No matter what, that does cause family friction with people.
While I'm sure you are a babydoll, and I'm sure you are an angel. Why move back to Austin? Come on over to NC, I'll be sure to introduce you to a family that will be happy to meet you and take you in as one of their own. Granted, that means you gotta put up with me. But on the bright side, you'll get really cool friends and family that will count you as one of their own.
© 2013 Created by The Spill Crew.
You need to be a member of The Spill Movie Community to add comments!
Join The Spill Movie Community