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So i'm sure we have all been in a relationship where we love the guy we're with but we tend to get the wondering eye. So me and my boyfriend have been together a year and half (pretty much we broke up a few times between) well a few months ago my best friend matt told me he likes me. Thing was I liked him since I first met him(bout three years ago). So lately ive been brushing off my attraction to him. And tonight it was a bit more then i could handle. I went to Kareoke with a bunch of friends including him and my bf. But I spent a lot of the time outside with my friends and my bf was inside. I ended up hugging matt a total of 5 or 6 times within an hour (four of the 5, 6 times ended up happening within 4 minutes.)and told him i really like him and his hugs lol. So now im kinda lost, i mean i know ill stay with my bf but a tiny part of me wants to know what its like with matt and I really dont feel guilty for wanting to be near matt so much.

Anyways here is the discussion has this ever happend to you? if so what happend finally? If not have you ever liked a guy so much but didnt know if it would work out so you left it alone. Or just talk about boys. Leave comments night ladies.

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Permalink Reply by Conejita on June 12, 2008 at 1:04am: Boys? I don't know anything about those creatures... Is there a class I can take or some pamphlets I could read?; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Arsenic Candy on June 12, 2008 at 10:52am: there is nothing wrong with being a cheater.. But by BF... what is the meaning ?????? A lover ?? or just a friend????? do you plan to marry him some time in the future ?????

and Matt..... what's it love at first sight ?? that can always be bad becuase the magic soon dies. it all deppends on who you want to spend you teenhood with... or how long you want him as the flavor of the month or year.

P.S CAn i HAve yOUR beSt friend who iS nOT maTT ???????????? will love to eat him; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Kool_Ade on June 13, 2008 at 3:18am: my bf is mark and im commited to him and ive never cheated on him. matt im not in love with he is a close friend i have a crush on. lol and no you cant eat my best friend; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Arsenic Candy on June 13, 2008 at 8:18am: =/

so U love mark.... but U have a "crush" on matt????????????????????????????........
you are seriously confusing me ..................................... back in my day (few months ago) a crush meant the rising of a new love................... guess that means a different thing these days.

and by eat... i mean to force him into making out with me... so of like date rape but without the violence.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Arsenic Candy on June 13, 2008 at 4:10pm: good point =); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by rowanna on June 21, 2008 at 3:33am: why dont you have a change and just say to your boyfriend ok i fancy a chage ect ect and then get to know mat the you can make your ming up ... :-); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Conejita on June 21, 2008 at 8:17am: wow, he'd have to be one generous and open minded person...; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by corey vire on July 10, 2008 at 8:11pm: Hi ladies. i dont even remeber joining here. sometime asking a man man questions helps. At 18 we have no real clue what we want. Brutal truth, I'm making and assumption here', at 18 if we have a girlfriend it's only because we are to afraid we wont get ant any hwere else. A n 18 year old man has no idea what he wants. I can gaurantee the crush feelings you have for boy 2 he has for other girls. it is difficult enough in a relationship let alone when you're young and inexperienced.
I personaly feelthat no serious relationship should be attempted before 25. why25? well if you go to college you get school out of the way without love drama. It also gives you time to get a beginnig of a life on your own together. This way if you do break up its not as hurtful.
Hell you havent even experienced the magic of 21 yet. Hischoll sweethearts are rare for a reason. it's on of the main reasons so many 25-30 year olds are on a 2nd marriage.
It may sound like I'm babbling but the fact that you have to even ask the question you did should tell you something.; ▶ Reply to This