So since many of you are have already experience love and all it's troubles.. it's it really worth it ? is it worth sacrifing your freedom for commitment ? is it better never to have love someone ?
it so .. does that make you less of a human ?
I have loved and simply fallen out of love...which is really tough. To end a relationship for no reason other than you're just not meant to be together hurts. Now I have to wonder if the break up was worth the loneliness...and now I sound kinda emo...so yeah...I think I'm done talking.
Permalink Reply by Rhea on September 30, 2008 at 8:36pm
I haven't seen this in years! God, Sam Kinison was great! And Tawny Kitaen was certainly gorgeous, wasn't she?
I have an opinion about falling out of love, or growing apart. It's unpleasant, and my friends hate when I say it, but here it is:
Usually people don't fall out of love. They jump.
They don't grow apart. They move apart.
This shit doesn't just happen. Love is the sum of the choices you and your lover make for each other every day. Even when a break-up is very dramatic, in retrospect, everyone always can point out those little things that distracted them from loving their partner, and made them wander off.
To an extent it is worth it. I don't regret any of the women I used to go with.
We had the time we were supposed to have. I got what I needed from them emotionally and I moved on. Each of them contributed in the making the man you see before you today, I thank them for that.
Do I see them again? NO! Do I wanna fuck with them again? NO!
They have ways that don't contribute or help in my progression and I am done. The past is the past, and we must look to the future.