So I don't know if im over reacting but i would really like some advice.Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2 years now and our relationship is pretty serious we live together and even talk about marriage. well recently we were going threw our things and he found a book of cd's that had a bunch of pictures of us and some really old ones. as he went threw them there were some of him and ex girlfriends and some were really explicit i guess would be the way to put it. He said he was going threw all of them and when i asked if he would be getting rid of them he said no because they were his memories. Now i have pictures of my ex but they are put away in a box at my parents house and they arnt explicit ones either. I am not asking he delete and burn all his old picture just the explicit ones?
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I'm going to kick your ass.
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in all honest you should really not worry about the photos, mds had a point. most guys watch porn and spent most of there time walking around think about/look at girls its is just in our heads all the time. this does not mean that he wants to leave you or doesn't love you its natural. if you honesty no longer find any man on the planet attractive or have had any thoughts about any other men since you have been with this guy then well done but since i will assume that you have try to cut him some slack they are only photos. now if he says her name during sex then you can get angry. men are pigs but that doesn't mean we cannot be loyal. this guy clearly loves you 2 years is not a short relationship. i would stop worry about it, small stuff like this will just negatively effect your relationship unless you just let it go. nagging is more effective if its over shit that matter after a while most men just tune it out just like we did with our parents.
that said i wish you luck an hopeful you will stay together for many more years
Permalink Reply by MDS on January 19, 2009 at 1:44pm
Yeah.
It's not like he's going around kicking nuns and punching babies or anything like that. He's got a few 'questionable' photos from his past with an ex... Big deal, it's not like he's going into the porn industry with the ex and sees her everyday naked and sucking on a cock or anything.
I really don't think this is that big of an issue...Mainly because if it was a bigger issue then you wouldn't know about the pictures...he would have done a much better job concealing them from you...At least I know I would have...
The fact that you ever got the chance to see them is a good indicator that those pics aren't a big deal to anyone...if you want you can send me the pics, and I'll go over them just to make sure they aren't too offensive...
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